They say what you don't know won't kill you, right? Can this be related to a cheating spouse? It hurt at times to find out that the one you gave your heart to is having an affair with someone else. It could lead to the break up of a beautiful relationship especially if the pain is unbearable. But if you are kept in the dark about your partner's affairs, then you don't have to go through the pain of heartbreak right? In fact, you can choose to turn a blind eye because you don't want to be hurt. Nothing changes, you love her, you are happy. You feel that everything is OK in your relationship. As long as you don't know about her love affairs, you are alright. But then, the truth has a way of revealing itself.
But which do you think will help reduce the pain of heartbreak? To know about your partner's love affair with another man or woman or not? And if you would like to know about it, would you prefer they confess it to you or you just want to find out yourself?
It's the Friday Heat people...
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I think finding her with another guy might break me lesser than finding her with a woman. With another man I may find ways to COMPETE and get her back. With a Woman, How can I compete with a Woman...Definitely I can never give her what another woman does give her.
ReplyDeleteI would like to know about that myself, and make a decision without her influence in it. Don't ever trust a person who comes back and confess something like that to you without knowing that you already know about it...most it turns out s/he's either dumped or found out the person lied to her/him...
But what if s/he was neither lied to or dumped by his/her lover? What if s/he is just guilt-stricken?
DeleteI'll prefer not 2 know her cos If I Do it may results 2 us falling apart.the pain of knowing that ur man is seeing another woman and u knowing about it and not be able 2 do anyfin. It is So unbearable.
ReplyDeleteJust like u say Wat u don't know won't kill u;) (y)
Cute Katty...
I'll prefer not 2 know her cos If I Do it may results 2 us falling apart.the pain of knowing that ur man is seeing another woman and u knowing about it and not be able 2 do anyfin. It is So unbearable.
ReplyDeleteJust like u say Wat u don't know won't kill u;) (y)
Cute Katty...
I'll prefer not 2 know her cos If I Do it may results 2 us falling apart.the pain of knowing that ur man is seeing another woman and u knowing about it and not be able 2 do anyfin. It is So unbearable.
ReplyDeleteJust like u say Wat u don't know won't kill u;) (y)
Cute Katty...