tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669582221520431985.post5519935740133982979..comments2023-06-03T03:05:13.746-07:00Comments on IN VAY'S DIARY: THE OTHER LOVER...VANESSA OBIOHAhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14429076059842474937noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669582221520431985.post-61639947102496863172012-09-03T09:00:34.581-07:002012-09-03T09:00:34.581-07:00Good pointers...thanks!!!Good pointers...thanks!!!VANESSA OBIOHAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14429076059842474937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669582221520431985.post-20774748723823600142012-08-30T17:03:51.643-07:002012-08-30T17:03:51.643-07:00If both partners want to save the relationship or...If both partners want to save the relationship or marriage, then the culprit needs to admit to the affair and end it as of the moment of he or she was caught. <br /><br />They need to have no contact with the person they were having the affair with, even if this means quitting a job.<br /><br />They need to explain why they had the affair--what were the issues he or she had in the relationship or marriage that made her decide to be with someone else? Nothing on this earth happens out of nothing. Also,this wouldnt be the time to blame partner A or B over this and that as each partner would try all they can to justify their emotions and or actions. The offending partner should also agree to counseling with you, or at the least some counseling with a confidante you both can trust,a priest or a pastor is your best bet or choice.<br /><br />If however they have no interest in giving up the affair or going to counseling, there isn't a lot you can do to save the situation.<br /><br />PKO,<br />Ghana...<br />precious obenghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05489354116505026599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669582221520431985.post-72202309240762965262012-08-30T07:07:48.384-07:002012-08-30T07:07:48.384-07:00Thanks. I'm honouredThanks. I'm honouredVANESSA OBIOHAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14429076059842474937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2669582221520431985.post-64136926109629737812012-08-30T07:06:51.681-07:002012-08-30T07:06:51.681-07:00Your article is great. I love the educational aspe...Your article is great. I love the educational aspect of it. I also love the way the article it's balanced. Very refreshing.Good work<br />IMAFIhttp://www.familyaffairserotica.comnoreply@blogger.com